How have you been?

Are you eating well?
Are you sleeping well?
Are you living well?

Well, I have been hanging on as well as I could during the circumstances. although some bad news in these past days did hit me.

I am tired, I know that you also feel the same.

I can’t say anything but “Hold On”

Shits are tough, not like it was easy before, but it did seems a lot easier previously.

Find things that keep you afloat in these times.


Just hold on.

Catching Up

Catching Up

It’s been ages since I write just for the sake of write. 

I used to have some little writing project back in the days, regardless of the quality of the writing. I have to post things up, and this was way before the algorithm craze. this is a way of me keeping myself accountable. Then I started to (kinda) write with purpose, a “food for thought” if you will, and I stop. Well, there was some incident that makes me really loathe writing, it gives me bad memories, to be honest, as I typing this down, I can kinda still remember the old incident. True it was partly from my ability at that time, but to quote Kim Cattrall “She could be more nice to people”.

Well, after some times I think I want to start writing again. 

No objective

No Goals

Just Write

about anything, catching up with myself, jotting down some thoughts, and sharing some little experiences. 

Okay, so I open up a small eatery now. Serving food that I love, simple and tasty. 

I know running a business is not easy and tiring, but even with early acknowledgment of the fatigue, it is still catch up to you. especially when the business is still small and you run it all by yourself. Friends and Family do help, but all the day to day, all the decisions made are handled by yours truly. Not to mention it is all in the midst of this crazy corocoro situation. If you were playing a game in Hard, this just switched to Extra Super Mega Hard. 

Why start a business in the mid of pandemic, you may ask.

because this damn thing happens in my 30th birthday. I have a nice plan from the start of the year to looking for places, setting up menu, doing the marketing and digital stuff, until it ready to launch in November, right when I turn 30. Yet, all this crazyness happened and we got stuck inside, hoarding as many stocks as our bank account (and supermarket stocks) allowed. Things got delayed, until when I turns 30, I decided to take the plunge. We don’t know how long this thing gonna last, might as well start now and adjust accordingly. 

year long planning stage, cut into one months (which I aimed for opening before christmas), got pushed to January, after the stress eat me out and make me loss 10 KGs (Which are welcomed, actually). Really, trying solo to open an eatery within 2 months from scratch, Not Recommended. 

Now, Six months in the business, things are not getting easier. Not gonna lie, there are days when I just wish I have a money tree that I can just pick and live my life hopping from cafe to cafe, reading books and watching netflix. But, fairy tale is indeed a tale. The bad days are gonna happen and I need to push through it. There were way too many goals I dismissed just because of the obstacle I hit. 

Running a small business are not easy, being entrepreneur is hard, especially when you still have no team. But those hardships are bearable, I am lucky to met such a nice group of local small business owner, that we ended up supporting each other, as simple as wishing a good services, sharing suppliers, even ordering bulk items so we can get a lower price. 

Hardships are inevitable, we have to face it to move forward.

Blessing are also inevitable, We have to be grateful for it as little as it may seems. 

What makes a good review

I just recently did some research about logistic service that provide a service to send package between city on the same day. Couple clicks later, I landed on a bad review for one company. It says, that the service was bad and unsatisfactory.


It is normal.

What boggle my mind is, the reviewer decided to sort of censored the company name.

If so, doesn’t it kind of defeat the purpose of the review? For information, this review is posted on a public forum, not the company page.

I mean, isn’t a review is supposed to be clear about what happens and whom involved? If they decided to censored the company name, wouldn’t it be useless. If the argument is to not give a publication for the company, instead of giving sort of a half-assed review, wouldn’t it will be better to just not post anything at all?

Of course it wouldn’t be fair if a reviewer just bash a company without any reason. It will be great if a reviewer provide a detailed chronology about what happens, also a solution for the problem. Not a mere “This service is bad”. Bad in term of what? Long queue? Not friendly customer service? Pricey? There are a lot of aspects that can affecting ones opinion. Not to mention a different person got a different tolerance level.

One might find a bad service a dealbreaker, while other might find it’s okay as long as it is cheap, and so on.

A good company should be able to handle any input provided from the customer. Isn’t it one way to improve the company product, especially the one that giving out service. Because in service, I believe customer satisfactory played a major role. Also being an approachable company could give an advantage, because the customer will feel that their voices are heard, thus will be more comfortable in using the product/service provided.

So is it still necessary to censored the company in a review? For me, it is not. Let’s tell it as it is, and ultimately be fair. If you felt the service/product is bad, tell it to the company first, then go write on your review. If the company happens to help and solve the problem for you, share the good news, if they don’t, tell they don’t. This way we can help others that in need about the kind of information related with our review.

Please leave a comment, I’d love to hear your perspective about this.

It Is Not Only About Beautiful Picture

When people looking for a review, what are they really looking for?

Cool places, beautifully plated food, amazing friendliness from staffs/owner, the actual taste of the food?

There are millions, that need to be considered to write a proper review, be it about food, book, cafe, movies, anything.

There are a lot of thoughts and process to make it, and to just snap some instafriendly picture and throw some ‘Good Food’, ‘Bad Food’, ‘Lousy’ on it, clearly not do any justice for all of us. It was not a good review for the reader and clearly not a valuable input for the business. If you believe that, they are not a to your liking, you can try to describe it over, is it overcooked, is it too salty, is it too spicy, the wait staff is not attentive, etc. Do not just left it in one liner and put the hashtag #FoodBlogger on your post.

You aren’t one.

Or, at least, not yet one.

Because simply ‘Good Food’ is never good enough. Let’s say you order a spaghetti bolognese, you can try to say “the pasta cooked perfectly, the sauce was flavorful, you can totally taste the tomato, although I would prefer it with a little bit of salt to enhance it more. All in all, it was a pleasant meal.”  

With a more elaborate review you can tell your reader how is your palate, but still giving out general information that should be the standard, like an al dente pasta, not hard like it barely cooked or a mush that can be smashed with your fork, but it has to give a resistance when you bite it. That is a good al dente pasta.

What I feel with a descriptive post about food is to built a relationship between you and the reader. With a more detailed post, the reader will get your tastebuds better and they will find whose taste suits who. Because food is surely an unique fields, everybody has their own taste profile. What greats for me might not suit your liking, and vice versa. That is why with a specific information we can give a more recomendation about food and places we loved.

This is not exclusively for a blogger or food writer that have their specific website. But I believe this is applicable even on Instagram or restaurant review site such as Zomato and such. I encourage you to read more cookbooks, or watch cooking show, a lot of cooking shows. It will helps to enrich us with a vocabulary to describing foods. Try watch Top Chef or Chef’s Table to get a chef’s perspective. For me, those things give me more appreciation on the food I ate.  

Beautiful picture is cool, informative review is awesome, both of them together is amazing, just like ebony and ivory live together in perfect harmony, side by side on my piano keyboard, oh why don’t we. *high five if you got this song references.

I write this piece in an attempt to shake the rustiness of my already lacking keyboard skill, as well as something that has been on my mind after I saw some review on the food service apps as well as #FoodBlogger at Instagram.

Tonight The Street are Ours!

I’ve been following a Singaporean Photographer called Aik Beng Chia for a while, he took photos of Singapore like nobody else. While people took all the mighty atas – atas picture of Singapore, he shows us Singapore from another point of view. He often takes pictures on the back alleys of Singapore, which give us another approach of Singapore. I have also been following his live session in Instagram where he shares the backstory about his projects and how he approach photography.

The song I used in this post is the song by Richard Hawley that he used on his project with the same title. If you have the time, I do reccomend you to look over his website, he took picture from everyday Singaporeans to an old school Teo Chew Opera Crew.

*atas – atas is a term in Singapore that used for explaining upscale lifestyle.

The Good Ol’ Days

Right now I am in the middle of The Romance of Three Kingdoms, Book Two, a Chinese classics. Which should not be a surprise for my friends, since they know what I am into. I always have the affection towards old school stuff, be it movies, books, fashion style, especially music.

I love old school music.

What I listen in the car is varied from my Spotify playlist, but mostly is a daily mix consisting of old Mandopop hits or a playlist from 80’s band or sometimes musical scores. I don’t know why, but classic hits always hit my soft spot. I am not sure if it is the arrangement that’s easy to follow, though sometimes the lyrics can be corny as hell, or simply it gives out such a comfortable nostalgic feelings. My analysis is heavy towards the latter since I am not the one with the musical talent.

My analysis is heavy towards the latter since I am not the one with the musical talent. That’s why I believe I have some sort of nostalgic attachment towards it. The weird thing is, I wasn’t born when the hits were written and put on the chart. That thing aside, I believe that old memories do affect our decisions in the present days and a big reason why nostalgia marketing is very effective nowadays. Just like the remake of Power Rangers or live action version of Beauty and The Beast. They took the old fond memories of the customer to push the sales, which I thought a smart move. Instead of throwing things that completely new, we take an old stuff that hits and tweak it a bit and put the technology that was not possible back then.

I am not saying that this is the best way, innovation is always a good thing. It pushes people to learn more and more. But, sometimes we do need to chill a bit and reminiscing the good ol’ days, don’t we?

Meanwhile, enjoy this amazing music from 1987 Mannequin Movie, “Nothing Gonna Stop Us Now” by Starship.

The Power Rangers I love



from here


I still remember during my childhood, I, just like any other Asian kids in an Asian household, have to go through a home tutoring session, even on Sunday morning. I was unlucky because my session starts at the same time with the airing time of Mighty Morphin Power Rangers. I remember I took a long drinking break from my dinner table to my living room for the sake of having a glance of that week episode. I feel that one hour of Mandarin lesson was a torture. Why I should learn these weird, strange, shaped character while five badass teenagers are kicking monsters out of the city of Angel Grove. I dreaded that hour (which now I regret why I wasn’t paying attention more to it), and kinda drive my tutor crazy and gave up teaching me, I was gladly accepting my precious time in savouring every episode of Power Ranger. Then comes the times where my favourite superhero got their first big screen appearance. The trip to the movie is already a fun activity and now I get to watch the badass power ranger out of my TV at home. It was a lot of fun!

Fast forward to 2017, the reboot of the movie is out, they cast a new member as the power ranger, give them superpower, and have them fight evil in the form of Rita Repulsa. As an homage to my childhood, I go and watch the movie. I was going to the movie with a low expectation because I have seen snippets about the zord and the armour on social media. To be honest, I hate it. Yes, they give out a new modern touch in it, but I feel it was too much. When I heard Power Ranger, I expecting to see five teenagers (with an attitude) in a bit tacky costume, not some armour from a cyborg or sci-fi movie. Same goes with the zords, it’s a bit too cool.

Storyline wise, it was not that bad. I was expecting to have a classic power ranger moment, rangers fight monsters, loses, got a new power, fight again, win. But, nope, they give out a bit of backstory for each ranger, which is cool! I do not love it very much, but it is a cool take on the story and it shows the differences and issues from the current community. Sick parents, LGBT, Autism, Sportsman gone wrong, and girls hierarchy. It is suited to a mature audience, whose the same person that went to watch the first movie back in 1995.

As I said I go with low expectations, to be frank, this movie maybe the first reboot movie that I watch both versions. I do not expect to go out from the movie with the same awe I had back then, but I must say this movie bring back the memories of the good old days. Because no matter how old are you right now, I am sure the moment you see the zords coming out with a back sound of ‘go go power ranger’ it will put a smile on your face. I recommend this movie for you, but do not expect for a highly rated cinematic movie like transformers or such. For me, this movie is pure for the nostalgic purpose.

Well, I think it is the time to say this.

It’s Morphin Time!

thoughtless useless

When things that supposed to be motivating starting to have the opposite effects.

When things that supposed to be inspiring seems out of reach.

When you thought of the support system that actually demoralising.

When you feel like a mess in the middle of the night.

When you wanted to do nothing but get out of the life you were in.

Take a deep breath and order some Bakmi GM or Martabak Keju.
You probably hungry.

I Miss Sitting in a Meeting

A good one.

I am sure you all know what I mean. I am not talking about a meeting where you just sit around a table and listening to some nonsense. I am talking about a nice brainstorming session, the one that actually providing results, or at least steps towards that. In a meeting we could get some inspirations and ideas and collaborations for some cool things, some fun events, etc.

Some prefer to called it brainstorming, well it works. It sends out a more cool vibe than the word ‘meeting’. While brainstorming sounds like a more fun activity with throwing a lot of ideas out of the box and that kind of stuff, meeting tend to drive our mind to that long boring moment when we play candy crush or scrolling over social media while pretending to be present at the room or table.

I had this random thought just when I was about to sleep, well most of my random thoughts comes up at that time, and I felt like I haven’t been bloging for such a long time, so why don’t I share this random thought with the interwebs.

Back then, I was used to sit on a long meeting, discussing about details of the event. It was a headache back then, I must admit, lots of arguments, problems, dramas, name it all. But it was all worth it when you can argue and actually getting results. Your idea might not be always the best and picked all the time, but the feeling of being listened and taken into considerations gives us a feel of respect. Which encourage us to throw some ideas in the future.

To make it simple, it was tiring but worth it. All the times, energy, hard work that been spent on the event paid off when the event is done and we all can share the memories and lessons for future events.

What I missed the most actually the camraderie. We all spare our times to do the meetings, comes up with idea, crafting the equipments, making phone calls, try to pull all strings we had. We just get motivated to not be the one that pulling the team down.

I am not sure, wether the work ethic has changed, or maybe it just a bunch of people with different work pace with me. One thing for sure, I am not feeling the sense of camraderie anymore. It might be just a different path that we grown into and that is the reality that must be accepted.

Good meeting sessions also helps to keep the mind sharps. We are being pushed to use our minds to think about a lot of stuff, from decision making, solutions for problems, or maybe some light jokes to lighten the mood.


I really miss a good brainstorming session.

Let’s not be a grinch!

Happy New Year!

I know it was a long month ago that the new year passed, but last week we just passed another one, so I figure it’s still valid!

I have been ignoring this blog for way too long, to be honest, I was kinda lost the feeling for blogging because I don’t think that I have something worth sharing for. Last year wasn’t a very bright year for me. Leaving Singapore because of this back injury, it feels like I abandoning something I adore for so long. But, it was all in the past and let it be in the past, take a thing to be a lesson and not dwell so much on it.

As a lesson from it, I started to get more aware on my health. Other than swimming for the back, I add some weight training to build some muscle. Well, mostly I work out so I can justify what I am eating. Although, by working out I figure I was more reliable on the diet. Just because I don’t want all the hard work goes to waste.

With that being said, it sometimes bugs me when people exaggerating their diet. Yes I know it was a pain in the ass to burn all that calories away and you don’t want it to just easily go away. But it doesn’t mean that you have to be such a drama queen when you wanted to eat something. If you want to eat it just friggin eat it! work your ass later in the gym to burn that extra calorie! If you committed to the diet then do it and do not be such a wuss when people ate in front of you and putting such a miserable face, you just make the appetite gone along with the joyful of eating. Do not take away the grinch job!

On the other side, let’s move into a more positive side. Being exposed to a lot of information available, especially with the internet nowadays, it is confusing for a newbie like me. Currently, I am trying to workout like a powerlifter/bodybuilder kinda workout and I got a lot of help from, they provide a lot of information and free workout template. While for a little motivation I like to watch Matt Vincent’s video on youtube as well as SuperTraining. They both provide a valuable information and occasionally motivational content.

Let’s hope (and work) for a better year ahead of us!